I do agree that my skin has thickened over the past 2 years. I also realized that I really only want to be around people who truly want to spend time with me for who I am and not what I can do for them.
I understand that a parent will do whatever is necessary for their child regardless of whether they were at fault or not. But, as a woman, I would have thought that his mother would have at least reached out to me in some manner to say that she had some form of sympathy/empathy/compassion for what I was going through......but nothing.
There is no question that they funded his lifestyle and also contributed to his way of thinking for quite some time, this was true even before the BD or separation. To this day they still tell him what to do in certain circumstances.....I find that so weird.
The truth is I already have a WTF attitude toward them
One thing I am having a hard time with is his decision to hold affection from me because of the way he felt......seems very immature and childish. I do not have the time for that kind of relationship with him. I find myself not having any loving feelings towards him, and not wanting to move forward with the relationship. This has definitely changed my feelings towards wanting to put in the work.
He has texted twice today and I have no desire to reply to him.
