Living in the Present, only Looking Forward

[DonH]

Let me apologize if we've already had this convo in previous threads. I tend to forget who ice said what I'm about to say you to in the past. But, here it is, do you think you might be rushing the shore dating thing? You've not even been divorced a month yet. I think things have not gone too well for you in the early goings here because you are rushing it. You've already posted and deleted profiles. What's the rush? Most everyone says to take at least six months if not a year to just work in you. Do you think you are really emotionally ready for a new R?

You are not alone as I've seen this happen with several others here as well. Getting a D takes such a toll on a person. It brings up so much amd so much hurt. The way to soften the hurt is not a new R. Sadly it's the only thing that some people know. They feel naked not having somene.

I just wanted to raise this. As anaside, I wonder if thus us in part why OLD does not work for many here. Are many OLD'rs themselves brand newly single as well. That's a topic I may explore on my own thread.