My L actually wrote in the agreement that she has to ask for my permission before entering the house. It may sound petty, but it's impossible to explain how "secure" that makes me feel.
Holding,
It's not petty, it's smart. During our separation, my wife came into my house and she was being overtly provocative. I told her to get out and she left. The next week, the same thing happened. After that, I told her she was no longer welcome in my house. She hasn't been in my house since then and I think that's the best approach given her proclivity for slinging sh*t.
