Guess I am the only one who thinks Cil should not tell Bubbles' husband. How do we know he doesn't already know??
Leave them to it.
His office is in turmoil?
Leave them to it.
His daughters know and have lost respect for him?
Leave them to it.
He wants you to have little influence/effect in his life?
GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANTS. NOW LEAVE HIM TO SUFFER HIS CONSEQUENCES!
Good God, you've been given the greatest gift of all - YOURSELF! Plus the bonus of being validated. You're instincts were spot on. Never ever doubt them again.
Run with it.
I know this is painful. I know this is upsetting, to put it mildly. You've done the absolute right thing for yourself by stating what you know and getting it all out in the open. His trysts will be forever overlaid with the knowledge that YOU KNOW. YOU KNEW ALL ALONG.
I believe living a life completely and totally your own, without a backward glance is the best revenge if you're into that sort of thing.
It's also the healthiest thing you can do for yourselves and your girls. They may be in their 20s, but make no mistake doll, they are still watching, learning and you are still presenting them with an example of how to live.
How would you want one of your daughters to handle this were she in the same situation?
That's my $.02.
Love you, Cil {{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
