I agree with you about time. I mentioned to him that I thought we should be working on OUR relationship first before we even think about bringing anyone else into it. I have never asked him not to have a relationship with his family. I also have never said they couldn't come visit, but what I am standing firm on is that they will not be allowed in my home.
I know it sounds pretty harsh (and controlling), but it is honestly how I feel. We did not have a good relationship to begin with so I just don't know if it would be possible to ever recover from what they have said and done to me. Plus I just honestly have no desire to be cordial to them. I know that if I never saw them again or never had any kind of interaction with them ever again my life would be just fine.
After having to go through all of this that I have been through the past 2 years, I have made a decision that I do not want people in my life who don't have my best interest, and they have proven to me that they don't.
Never even considered a post nuptial agreement.....definitely something to think about. He did say the other night that he wouldn't take any of the money....but I have a feeling if it ever came to that he probably would because his father would push him to.
