Hi Artista I think we will all be interested in the dynamics of your reconciliation, although, of course, all situations are individual and nuanced. Was it a "natural" process as such or was there a dramatic change of circumstances?
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One thing about me that may not be so helpful to LBHS here is, I am not one to lie to myself... I never rewrote history, I never used my H's shortcomings to justify my infidelity... In essence, I own my $h!t... He was not perfect, and he left me wanting at times, but we had a very good marriage... He didn't deserve the pain I caused... He would never have thought that I would ever do what I did... While we were separated and I had a couple of relationships, one being very serious that lasted about 18 months, in the back of my mind, I felt that these relationships were inauthentic... Not the real thing like my marriage was... Even though I saw myself having a life with that serious relationship, it still seemed not quite true...
I never saw myself ending up with the initial OM...
