Thank you Andrew for sharing your experiences with me. D22 is engage. They are in for the long hall.. her man is wonderful and the love and respect they share is admirable. I could not be happier for both of them.
The marriage discussion has begun. Marriage in Cuba? Marriage closer to home? Marriage in Gros Morne, Newfoundland?? I am under the impression that ex-h is left out. ??? I do not know if i should ask D22 what her plan is in regard of ex-h. I have been staying out of the relationship he created between him and each of our children.
In the same time, it got me thinking about my position. I am very VERY anxious around him still to this day. Having to face his OW and him together is not very appealing to me.
I know it is not about me. I know i will need to prepare mentally for this. I need to reassure myself that I CAN DO THIS AND EVERYTHING WILL BE OK. I will have anxiety med incase of unexpected events or provocating words from ex-h since he is always the biggest prick to me infront of OW. ( reassurance for her) . I know for a fact that if ex-h was to come alone, everything would be smooth. Let the prayers begin..
