If I have learned anything, it is not to read too much into each interaction. If you google "systems thinking iceberg" you'll see an idea in which events or interactions are what stick out of the water. Underneath the water are the patterns of behavior. It is the patterns of behavior that matter.

Anyway, enough philosophizing. Soon after I made the post I was contacted by the Court for our first mediation date. Which means my W contacted the court this morning to set up the date. So she's going full-steam ahead.

Whenever something happens in the D case, it knocks me down, it's depressing.


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