I always thought you were different then the rest of these idiots out there, but now I don't know, you say you want to go to Jersey with you friend Lauren, why do you have to drive? Why would you take away from your family to be with someone you met 2 months ago. It just doesn't add up it doesn't make sense and if it doesn't make sense then someone isn't telling the truth.
The quote above is definitely controlling and in a sense you called her an idiot because she wanted to get away for a girls weekend. Do you not see this in the above quote?