Did you read all of the homework that was in the posting that Cadet created on the very first page of this thread? If you didn't, you may want to go back, scroll down to the last link and read it. It might help you become stronger and more detached.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
