I know some things I can do. Personal fitness and financial, to start with. But how would she even take notice. Like really how would she even know
As someone who was in that spot 8 months, I will say this.
They will notice...But when they notice, you might be in a different position in your life and maybe not even care if they notice.
In June, I thought my wife leaving me was the worst thing to ever happen in my life. 8 months and a divorce later I can honestly say, it was one of the most painful yet best things to happen to me in a decade. I began to find out who I was as an adult, father, lover, friend etc.
I made changes to finances fitness etc. Yes xW noticed, but so did many other people.
Friends, Family, potential partners.
You can't save 100% of marriages, but you can regain 100% of your dignity.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
