M,

I took a break from the boards myself, and it seems to have helped me.

I think there is definite catharsis in these boards and insight into healing. But coming here every day was also a constant reminder of what had happened.

I decided to take a break from the boards, and things went through the roof, once I stopped /trying/ to heal and just actually did things heal.

Transmission issues are gone,
I've met someone who I have extremely intense chemistry with
I have had multiple women contact me and ask me if I am available for a particular set of skills I have.
I've gotten back to a healthier living style
My nerve issues appear to have mostly subsided, and regained most function in my arm again.

I guess my point is, don't be a stranger, but taking a break is definitely a positive for me.

Totally wish we could talk outside the boards, since you and I seem to be very much alike, personality wise.

Best of luck brother


Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017