Cil, I agree with all that Own has said. You don't owe your XH any loyalty and Bubbles is using him to Lord it over the others in the office. They both deserve each other and I agree tag he should know that his children know what they have been up to.
It's also annoying that he calls you and then says had wants to have as little influence in your life as possible and then wonders why you don't want to speak with him! Very narcissistic! (((Cil)))
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')