I actually did read it right before my last post! It’s just hard to believe.
DB'ing is counter-intuitive. Every fiber of your being is telling you to beg, plead, reason, explain, apologize, grovel, buy gifts, etc. etc. Those are the WRONG things to do, they never, ever work. Read the book. Read Cadet's links. Read Sandi's rules:
Give your W time and space while you read and learn. Leave her be. No pursuit. In the meantime read some other threads here for ideas on the info you need to share for us to effectively help you (so far you've shared very little). Good luck!
