H, [censored] we're both in the is! Same timeline as me(of course you know this) and I could have wrote this entire post verbatim. Having the XW in the house was a living hell and since she moved out things have been much easier. The real detaching and GAL'ing has begun, I thought I was but it was fake as I was just trying to keep my sanity in all this. My struggle has been with the daily stuff that my W and I shared without thought, cooking cleaning, laundry, etc.... It's all on me now, it's a big adjustment but every day it gets easier.