Mine for sure used to bait me to justify his Monster and, if he Monsters up again, I expect the same. I more mean that, when I feel like I am reaching the end of my rope or ready to shut him out, he seems to be kind and thoughtful and generous enough that I stay hopeful about our R. And, I'm suddenly resenting feeling hopeful.
BD#1: "marriage is over" 9/14/2016 H in basement 24/7 with EX/OM BD#2: 3/20/2017 I plan to move out "soon" I LRT me: 42, H, 41, EX/OM, 37 D 10, Son 7 M to H = 20 years EX/OM moved in 10 years ago