Advice on wife's actions

[marina7]

Liamj,
Wow as I read your sitch is like reading mines W is very condescending with kids and me W feels kids will get over it, they not going to die everyone gets divorce. W tells them this with no empathy at all. While I confer my kids and let them cry and let them vent. W grip s8 once and made a mark with nails I did confronted her and told W I would protect my kids. So W became very verbal then because is basically he said or they say she say.
I honestly thought my W was the only WAW with kids mistreating them but reading your story breaks my heart I know what your going through and it feels we can't protect our babies. All I can say is keep hanging in there our ride is starting this is just the beginning. Keep being Superdad and being there hero. Go to walmart and buy yourself Super shirt with logo my kids love when I wearthem they look at me as a super hero.