I am so sorry, and I hope this is not hurtful to either you or Joe, Marina, but I thought that you were a woman? And, your W has run off with another woman, right? As queer woman on the board, I just want to make make sure I understood correctly.

I am hungry for more stories of MLC or other major overnight shifts in queer/LGBT relationships.

BD#1: "marriage is over" 9/14/2016
H in basement 24/7 with EX/OM
BD#2: 3/20/2017 I plan to move out "soon" I LRT
me: 42, H, 41, EX/OM, 37
D 10, Son 7
M to H = 20 years
EX/OM moved in 10 years ago