The Fab 5 and Dad

[J5K]

Hi Sandi and Ginger,

Great to hear from you. I will find Marina 7 and see how I can help.

Ginger you are right! She is a beautiful person. I will elaborate more later but as always, if you truly love someone then set them free, let them be happy. Being in an R or M is a choice and we all deserve to be with a person who chooses to be with each one of us.

Funny how life works, this child psychiatrist that the school district found for the boys is amazing. Our last conversation has brought up a lot of feelings that are not necessarily negative but have me thinking about what “I” want to do and need to do for the boys. Of course there are many different ways to handle this. The frustrating part is making the choice.

Jokingly I said, Dr. you are going to tell me to move to Toronto. He said yes, but you don’t have to. Our session ended but I am going back because I am making great progress. He thinks he could have helped save my M if he had known about us 2 to 3 years ago. He had a video session with xW also. We both told the doc the same story. In the end he said what everyone else said, he is sad to see this happen because it is fixable.

He is also happy he is working with me. He thinks I am the more stable one and will coach me on how to best help the boys and balance the co-parenting with xW. He hasn’t read the DB book, but he is solution focused. I know I will need support from him to accept what my reality is and minimize the drama from her. He thinks we have a 25% chance that we will get back together. He cautioned though for me not to have any expectations and to live life and not do anything drastic like give up the boys if I do move there so more to come!