Liam, that is so awful about your son. I hope something will be done to investigate further and cut off contact between your kids and wife. What a total nightmare for you. Honestly I feel like the world has ended for me but if my husband hurt my daughter it would be much, much worse. I pray you and your kids have an opportunity to heal and be freed from this crisis.
Thanks Nicole, it certainly is a nightmare. The thing is she was a great Mum, I can’t understand what’s happened to her. She said to me the other day she’s raised the kids for 11 years, what’s different now, I said well there’s another element that is being put before them now. She didn’t respond.
Today was strange, she looked for the first time like the old her. She’s back peddled on some of the things she said to me on D day. She told me she was in love with him since Jan 2017, then today she mentioned it hasn’t been going on as long as I think. I said about the whole in love with him since Jan thing which she said in front of my Mum. She just denied it and said that’s not true. I actually think some of the fog might have lifted, she tried having a normal conversation with me and even made a joke. I told her I don’t know her, I don’t trust her, I can’t be your friend. She started crying about a financial issue, I think she thought I would offer to help. I simply stated that she allowed me to take on that debt knowing she was having an A and leaving for him, so for the time being my L has said until it’s discussed in mediation, pay nothing. With that she cried again and drove off upset. I think she is realising that I’m starting to move forward and can’t be manipulated anymore. I never would have thought it before today, but I think she actually regrets it all, but realised that there’s no way back to me and is probably crapping herself that the OM will leave her.
