Newbie In Need Of Guidance

[rminer]

Another update.

I think the R/A/D conversation may be coming soon, so I need to prepare.

I did a little Facebook stalking today and found that one of my W "friends" is a Divorce Attorney. I don't remember her being there before. I don't have Facebook, but I do know how to check some things.

My question is, what do I need to do to prepare? I have read about validation as well as some threads.

What do I need to say/do/act? I need to get a game plan together for this ASAP, as I feel like the talk will be coming sooner rather than later.