The day after the accident I get a text message asking me to go get stuff out of the wrecked car. Then my phone rings and my W asks if I can come because they won't let her in the car because its in my name. So I go and the car was a total wreck, and the tow truck guy said how amazing it was she was un-injured. She got some stuff, and then we parted ways. She didn't look too good.
After work I went home and did crossfit. My W skipped because she is too sore to exercise. She was on the phone with insurance agency. I am letting her do everything herself. She doesn't ask for help and I don't offer. She did some work on her computer and then went to sleep early. She did look fatigued.
I did some reading and went to bed early too. Unfortunately, while I fall asleep easily enough, I've been waking up at like 2 or 3 in the morning and then cannot fall asleep again. So when morning comes around I'm tired and don't want to get out of bed. In the morning everybody was gone before I got up and went to work.
I got some good support from some friends that they are there for me, willing to talk, etc. They also said they don't want to choose between us. This made me feel better.
