Neutral, according to many former MLCrs - no, they don't remember. Now, is this because of the depression or because they've blocked it out of their minds?

Combination thereof?

Who knows. Best not to worry about them and focus on what you want and where you're going ....

Leave them to their festering misery.

Sorry if that sounds cruel; I don't mean it to - rather, detaching is the only way to stay sane in all of this. If one has kids, that's imperative.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver