Joe, yeah, I know no one can make any assurances but I feel I can't accept that it's over yet. Maybe I'll re-commit to the LRT for the remaining weeks that I'm married, in case there's .05% hope and to try to develop a better roadmap for myself.
Sotto, I sent the apologies because I have nothing to lose. My husband already decided he's done, but when I made those realizations I felt compelled to apologize. Even if I can't change my husband's position I want him to know I'm sorry. I did also make contact with Divorce Care in the new city where I'm planning to move and already talked with their group leader. Thanks for mentioning them!
Thanks for the tip about the DB forum on Facebook. There are some great resources there I didn't know about! I created a different facebook profile and posted some comments there. If anyone wants to connect there you'll know who I am.