Hi Liamj , just read the latest re child services and Ws treatment of S. A couple of things spring to mind, your S is very upset so be mindful that he MIGHT be saying whatever he thinks each parent wants to hear or truths might be told with embleshments.
're the social worker , calm is the key word here , listen , digest , take a min and then argue your points with calm level tones, make notes and or record each session with the social workers knowledge. I have a short temper and dont always express myself calmly when i feel im not being listened to so I've learnt to look like I'm considering whats been said while really taking my time to calm down and answer logically.
Regarding the social workers comments of oversharing with the Kids, maybe take a step back and see if there is any truth to it. Your obviously a good dad and as such im sure not beyond constructive criticism.
At this point I would like to say im 100% on your side and any comment i make is well intended.
The kids sleeping arrangements when with W are a concern so maybe raise this with the social worker. Is the social worker aware of OM and the involvement of OM in the kids lives? I don't know the UK laws re any of this but raising it during a meeting will clarify same.
Another small nugget that you proberbly know is the saying ' act in haste and regret in leisure ' , always take your time before replying , let you emotions settle and then respond.
This is a very tough road and you are travelling it well.
