Husband gone for the second time - 2

[Joe2017]

I know how it is. You desperately want someone to tell you how the situation should be handled in order to create a certain outcome. But that's beyond what any of us are capable of.

By all accounts my WW should be begging for me back within the next few months. Will that happen? Probably NOT! I had to become OK with that. And I am.

Don't blame yourself completely. Yes, we all played a part in how things happened. But it is not ALL your fault that things are this way now.

Nicole, I can't tell you that you have another chance. That's up to your H at this point. But you will one day be OK without him. I am guilty of trying to rush my own personal grieving process, and I can tell you that it doesn't work. You have to take the time. It is crappy but true.

Nicole, you are a strong woman. You will get through this.