And still struggling

[Jim1234]

I see a pattern in this, 25 posted some amazing posts at the start of your last thread about the passive aggressive umbrella incident and punishment with regard to the advance payment on the house. Comments about protecting from consequences, I think you might choose to reread and see if you have a pattern.

V,

I reread 25's posts, a few times, and thought about it for a while, but honestly don't see the parallels. I think 25 had some very good comments about those situations, but I don't see how they apply to this one. Can you spell it out for me a little more?

thanks