The other thing is that I've been looking on Match and Zoosk (as a stalker, lol) and looks like some really cool girls out there. I havent subscribed so I cant email them but I think I want to although I'm not ready for anything serious. Hanging out, getting a beer, movies with someone interesting and attractive AND who doesnt hate me, lol sounds pretty good right now. I think I'll hold off a few months though.
I wouldn't go beyond stalking, lol. I think the LBS needs to envision that if the MR does end, there are others out there for new and better relationships. To me this is the role of stalking on Match and other dating sites. But in my opinion, as long as your legally married, regardless of how bad the marriage is, you shouldn't be dating. You're probably not ready and it is unfair to those on the sites you contact.
