I agree, you have gotten stronger. Being around your buddy may help more than you realize. You sound like such a good person, Chris, and there are many good women who are looking for someone like you.

Don't let your WW guilt you. Don't feel sorry for her. This was her choice. She makes everything about "her". She just takes and takes, and doesn't give. She doesn't want to be a wife, she wants to complain about you not responding to her text! Be prepared on the 20th for her to try and play more immature games. Be tough and don't give in to her.

Don't settle! You are much too valuable, and a much better life is waiting for you. You can do it.

((Chris))

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!