I will say this, I just went down south to visit a friend for 5 days. I have mentally been doing so well with this whole thing, and I am finally seeing I do not want this current R/M. There is no way in Hades I will ever put up with this in the future. I have gained so much knowledge from therapy, self help books, and just being on my own. I am actually excited for who ever I share my life with in the future. I am going to continue and work on myself through this whole thing.
Chris, this is a great post by you and I can see you have grown a lot through this experience.
She has moved out on you twice in the 3 years you have been married. You have no children together. IMO she needs to do a lot of work before you should even consider getting back together.