I’m sorry to read this Cil. Even when you are divorced and healing it’s hard to learn of horrible new things like this.

What you thought was at the time wasn’t quite...

This happened to me last year when I learned that XH remained more involved with his ex wife after separation and whilst we were dating than I ever knew - yuck

It does help someone become more unattractive in your eyes I agree...

Probably useful to know and you can manage any contact with your XH in light of the new information.

Take care and know that you are doing so well on so many fronts xxx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus