Thank you Andrew, Job, Bttrfly and HaWho, its lovely to hear from all of you and receive so much support for my decision to move and try something new. Doing it on my own is a bit daunting but its also quite liberating.
I received another email from H today, it started off by thanking me for my phone number and giving me his. I was a bit surprised he did this, he must trust that I am not going to now blast him with texts ...which I am not, I don't intend contacting him on it, only if I have an emergency with one of the boys.
He went on to tell me to speak to s21 about removals as he and s have looked into the logistics and cost of me hiring a van and s21 driving it, collecting both our stuff from mine, then dropping his stuff off en route to my location. If it saves me money then I think its worth considering, as far as I know h will not be involved in the actual event, only the planning of it.
He then carried on to tell me some news about how s21 is getting on and some troubles s is facing, h said he will keep me updated of any further developments. I am pleased h is taking notice of whats happening with s, he appears to be more of an active parent than he has been in a long time and I am happy that we are able to have this communication so I know what is going on with s now he is not with me.
10 weeks to go, its dragging as I feel ready to go now, but I know it will come soon enough. Still lots to do, I still have not sorted my camping fridge problem out, so that is next on the list.
