waw maybe #2

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I have started LRT, for the last 48 I have not said a word to my W. She has attempted to talk to me when I ask one of the kids a question she answers... I then give her a one word answer and leave the room. My kids do not know that she filed. I really am torn about telling them. I have only told one person so far, it is someone I can trust. I am waiting to tell my parents.

After I was served my W gave the following reasons not to tell anyone.
-we cant tell her mother b/c her mother is not well and it will upset her.
-cant tell her S b/c there is a big party she is hosting and it would ruin the party.
-cant tell the kids b/c it would upset D18 who is returning back to college in a few days.
- its none of anyone's business

I have been going out with friends but today I spent just lounging around the house. W spent the day with the two D's and her mom. She came home and is now curled up on the couch. Almost like she is depressed. I often wonder what she is going to tell everyone what the reason is that we are D'ing.

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