I believe i am more or less on track already with what is suggested (minus the couple times where i screw up of course but that happens to everyone once in a while)
The thing with with my son is very complicated actually.
She insists on keeping him, and legally there is very little (nothing basically) i can do to prevent her from doing so.
I WOULD be fine with her keeping him under normal circumstances, but as is, how can i trust her to be the mother he needs when she is this mentally unstable, almost manic-depressed and confused at times? I know i probably make this sound worse than it is in actuality since i am sure she would never endanger his actual well-being, she loves him to death. It is more subtle though, since he is very empathetic for his age and i know her depressive states WILL weigh down on him as well if her MLC won't pass or get better in time...