Calling HaWho

[mleigh4]

I read somewhere in my paperwork that all assets must be disclosed, and if the info is found to be intentionally withheld, that person may end up losing it all to the other spouse. That is a big big no no.

Good work finding that out! I agree with the others about keeping notes with your H behavior. He is being very PA and immature so far.

I am not totally sure, but I think your boys, at their age, might have some say in what they want? Did your L mention anything about that? Once you sit down with them about what is happening, just you and them, you can find out their wishes and comfort levels. I know your H is being a poop, but you have to keep in mind what will be best in the long run for the boys. You know best, but if you know your H truly loves them and is a good dad, I would keep his immature antics towards you separate. For my S, knowing we both love him dearly, both have our time with him, and both put him first before our issues with each other, has kept his world balanced. I hope, even if your H isn't grounded enough right now to handle things that way, your ability to will help the boys.

I am glad to hear your L is working well for you. You also sound like you are handling things well. Hopefully, as things progress, your H will calm down a bit. I hope.

((((HW))))