ditto on what Surv1ve said! Buy yourself a brand spankin new notebook and label it "divorce negotiations" - write down dates and events.
Ex. Son's baseball game, deposits from unknown accounts (account #s dates and times)
Brava Surv1ve for catching that one.

Good grief.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver