To detach you dont have to move out. If you think moving is better for your health and ability to heal than do so. Detachment is detaching yourself from the emotions and reactiins of your W. She in essence if she laid next to your every night or lived millions of miles away she would get the same reaction from you. Being detached is letting a person live their own life without it affecting yours. You need to read up on detachment. You will know when you are detaching. It will be when she is mad and upset and blaming you for something, you will say ok and move on. You will validate and keep living and she will immediately know the difference in your reactions from a detached Anative and an attached Anative.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
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This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.