The problem with changing that is it's the status quo. Upsetting the apple cart in the middle of a custody case just seems like a bad idea, no matter how much I'd like to change it at this point. The good news about the morning call is it happens in the car on the way to school, so it's not really disruptive--her evening call is fall more intrusive.
My opinion is that if YOU dont like hearing XW butt in on these phone calls, then you are certainly welcome to back away from them on your end. If XW wants D to call her twice a day, then Id say accommodate it. But I feel like you get regularly frustrated by the calls you make to her. And Im not sure what the benefit of them is.
As Ginger said, just tell D you love her, and youll hear all about her day/week/whatever when she gets back. And let her know if she ever wants to call to just ask mommy and you will make it happen.
