Should i leave the house or stay?

[peacetoday]

Neutral,

Hang in there
you may see a lot of getting close and pushing away
It is not your fault and you know you cant fix her

You can take this time to work on you so whichever way your W chooses, you will be ok

I know how much it hurts-but the pain will slowly fade
and you will land safely on your feet

I beleive the only way a MLCer can safely navigate their storm is with willingness to get help for themselves
they cant see they are the problem and eventhough your W has moments of clarity, Im notr sure she will address her issues when Its so much easier to run and play for a while
only time will tell-

watch her and do as you are.
watch the finances
get Legal advice to know your rights
know what is best for your son

take good care of you
be their for your son
get some IC
Do what is suggested here and you will be ok