Please take some time and do a credit report on both of you. You may find more info that you weren't aware of.
As for that account, write the bank numbers down and do a little bit of research when you can. They are very sneaky and will not share info w/you...but it seems like they tell on themselves.
Hang in there! We are all here for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
