Contact from the dark side.

[Lana_71]

Dear Irish
Happy new year....
Reading along and I just really wonder how these mlcers think. Addition definitely affects their feelings and emotions. They always feel sorry for themselves and have no empathy to anyone else. They consider themselves in pain alone while everyone else is happy.

The problem is they are not faking it they are really in emotional distrust that they inflicted on themselves but unfortunately they can’t see it. Hence all the made up stories are to justify their stories.

I do believe now that nothing we can do can wake them up. It is a decision they have to do. I just we we can treat them as a sick stranger without judgement .

Something I am so much struggling at right now. Because of all the history we had with them and we had known them to be something else in the past.

When I look at lbs in general we are at a much better place couple of years after the issue cause we faced one of the most difficult situations in life and survived. It needs sometime but get better but for them I wonder if they can forget and move on for ever.

Keep posting...