Thanks Bttrfly. Actually the company for which I work is very active with meditation. We are offered to take 20 minutes worth each day! And twice a week we have access to an onsite studio where we have a quick class (during business hours) where we stretch and meditate. It's pretty smart as I am sure it increases productivity and also, it is so bad to sit all day long. I will check that out!

Hi Mleigh, well, I was as shocked as you are. Another BD. H has his finger hovering over the red button at all times. Love the way you discussed things with your son. I'll be borrowing that and mixing it in with what KML and Bttrfly advised.

Now here is something quite interesting. This morning I saw that, one day after h learned I obtained my own lawyer, there is a transfer in place from an account I do not know about. Well, well, well. Also interesting? Another account mysteriously appeared as well. I had asked h about that exact amount of money several years ago as I kind of lost track of things when he kids were young, life was frenetic and I trusted my h implicitly. It's a significant amount. At the time (just before replay) h told me we'd spent it on the addition we built. We had an argument as I was incredulous that he could spend that much over what I thought it was all costing. Even more interesting is that he had undermined me by telling me that I had no idea how construction projects work and how things balloon over budget. No wonder he was so anxious to have me sign, sign, sign and use his L. It'll be interesting how this version of his assets form differs from the one he gave his L.

Looks like my L has already paid for himself . . .


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced