Hi RD

Good to see you around. Well, I'm even more perplexed! W picks the kids up, and tells me FIL has had two mild heart attacks in the last two weeks, so you're right, I wasn't that important to be told that! This weekend he was admitted for stents to be fitted. I'm not sure why there was this huge need to go down this weekend, unless (and this is my suspicious LBS mind kicking in) this was some kind of pre-planned event that happened to fall on FIL's illness. I hope it isn't, and I hope I'm not being overly sceptical.....but! Anyway, that isn't any of my concern, right?

Hi Ginger

NC - I don't know if this is really the right path. I mean, here we are, three months away from 3 years, and I have never got the inkling that she misses me. I have never made any secret of the fact (on this board)that I miss her terribly and want us all back together. The usual pulls are there though - checking my FB; checking when I'll be in etc. NC, then, is for me. A way of not being drawn in to the crazy swirling world of MLC land.

In general, I've found out (through my W's sloppy use of IT) that she is running out of money, fast. Her credit card statement appeared on my S's computer - the best part of £10k! There was also an email about non payment. We had no debt once the house was sold in December 2015. Again, not my problem, unless it comes to the kids having no food etc. I suppose if you buy a 4X4, new boobs and a tummy tuck (and an endless supply of new clothes and shoes to look good) when you live on a small wage and Government benefits, then one day, it's gonna bite you.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015