Hawho, I’m sorry to read about recent developments and glad to see you are getting some good advice from others.

I had the same thing with XH. He wanted no Ls and everything in his favour. I got my own L despite this and he then got a L too. Once he got a L he seemed much more reasonable. I think maybe she gave him a good talking to!

My settlement, based on the normal formula in our situation, was roughly double his original offer.

Whilst this must be horrible just now, please know that peace does lie beyond and focus on looking after yourself and you and your boys best interests.

Big hugs to you xxx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus