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[gw5263]

LH19, you are most likely correct. Quite possible I can’t oull it off. But at this point what do I have to lose. Nothing I’ve done has worked. Obviously I can’t get it right or there would have been movement one way or the other. I’m at the end of my rope. I can’t figure out boundaries, can’t seem to fully detach because we live together. All I can think of doing right now is as Artista said, force thier hand. OM isn’t serious about this, he’s filling her head with fairy tales of living with him with the kids happily ever after. He wants her and my kids down there about as much as I want him to draw breath.... not at all. She can’t seem to see this. I’m gonna go back and start from the beginning re read all sandis rules and WW posts and see what I’m missing or doing wrong. Not listening here is a big one.......