Newbie In Need Of Guidance

[rminer]

I am reading here. A LOT.

I have read your 37 rules. That is the backwards part to me. I don't have any questions yet, but I will let you know.

I actually "started" implementing them today. I did not contact her at all today. She did text me about some things at home and I gave only the necessary info. to end the communication.

The thing that makes me the most nervous about it is that she won't know WHY I am doing it if we don't have the R discussion and she doesn't know that I know about the A. She is doing the exact same thing to me, so we could fall in to the hole of absolutely no communication if I am not careful. It is almost as if SHE has read the 37 Rules and is using them on ME!

But you are the expert, so here it goes...