Thanks for your input. It turns out my husband has to go overseas this coming week to escort his father to his home country to visit a dying relative. I hope while he's gone he at least reflects on everything. It's not that I want to concentrate on him, but I still have to work with him through the divorce process, deal with him as our daughter grows up, and depend on him financially until I'm working so his mental state and actions towards me do affect me right now. If he wants a divorce I have no choice about that, but I wish it could be done in a more humane manner.
