Newbie In Need Of Guidance

[Joe2017]

RM:
We have all been in the same place.

You have to take a step back. Replace YOU with HER when she tells you things. She will project her feelings.

You have to do the opposite of what you think is right, right now. You want to give her a hug? She will hate it. You want to remind her of good times? She will say something awful.

So stop it. What you want to do will NOT bring about the response you expect and only frustrate you.