Newbie In Need Of Guidance

[rminer]

I will read up on that a bit first.

I have to say you are handling this well most guys are a complete mess when they get here!

Thanks, but I am a mess on the inside. Don't think I haven't lost it once or twice. With the household I grew up in, I learned long ago how to control my emotions. I have become very good at focusing on a task and blocking the emotional side out when necessary.

Just trying to keep myself together for the kids, although I do think at least two of them know what is going on.