Hey there Hispeed, just chiming in to let you know that your situation pretty much feels EXACTLY like the one i am in right now
Funny how many MLCers exhibit the same behavior to a tee and how the reactions of the LBSers are instinctively similar...
Anyway, I am not sure how affected the kids would be in your case, but one common theme i noticed here on the boards is that for men it is often the MLCer (the W) which moves out of the MH.
In my case it would be the opposite and it would be pretty much a given that SHE would be the one staying in the MH with our son and i'd have to move out.
Either way though, i am still pretty new at this game but i get the feeling you are on the right track with what you are doing, giving space, listening, not getting worked up/letting things escalate and be patient and work on yourself!
It's what i keep telling myself and some days it works, others not so much...
It got me when you mentioned that sometimes she comes to you for hugs, same here, and doesn't it weird you out kind of? I want to enjoy them but then i feel like i am hugging someone else/different, not the W i knew.
